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1、Man are from Mars,Woman are from VenusAbout the Author Beginning in 1995 with his Beginning in 1995 with his groundbreaking Men Are from groundbreaking Men Are from Mars,Women Are from Venus,Mars,Women Are from Venus,the New York Times number one the New York Times number one best-selling book of th
2、e last best-selling book of the last decade,Gray launched a Mars-decade,Gray launched a Mars-Venus book series that changed Venus book series that changed the way men and women will the way men and women will forever view relationships.In the forever view relationships.In the fifteen years since,Joh
3、n Gray has fifteen years since,John Gray has sold over 50 million books in sold over 50 million books in more than 45 languages more than 45 languages throughout the world.To quote throughout the world.To quote Wikipedia,You must be from Wikipedia,You must be from another planet if you have not anot
4、her planet if you have not heard of John Gray and his Mars heard of John Gray and his Mars Venus Universe.Venus Universe.ThemeMen Are From Mars,Women Are From Venus,an Men Are From Mars,Women Are From Venus,an enormously popular book by author John Gray,enormously popular book by author John Gray,co
5、ntains many suggestions for improving contains many suggestions for improving relationships between men and women through relationships between men and women through understanding the communication style and emotional understanding the communication style and emotional needs of the opposite sex.As s
6、uggested by the title,needs of the opposite sex.As suggested by the title,the book asserts the notion that men and women are the book asserts the notion that men and women are as different as beings from other planets,and that as different as beings from other planets,and that learning the code of c
7、onduct of the opposite sex is of learning the code of conduct of the opposite sex is of essential value even if individuals do not necessarily essential value even if individuals do not necessarily conform to the stereotypical behaviour.conform to the stereotypical behaviour.Man are from mars,woman
8、are from venus Imagine that men Imagine that men are from Mars and are from Mars and women from Venus.One women from Venus.One day,longday,long ago,theago,the Martians,lookingMartians,looking into into theirtheir telescopes,discovered telescopes,discovered the Venusians.Just the Venusians.Just glimp
9、sing the Venusians glimpsing the Venusians awakened feeling they awakened feeling they had nevehad never r known.known.They fell in love and quidkly They fell in love and quidkly invented space travel and invented space travel and flew to Venus.flew to Venus.The love The love between the Venusians a
10、nd between the Venusians and Martians was magical.They Martians was magical.They delighted in being togetherdelighted in being together,doing things together and doing things together and sharing together.Though sharing together.Though from different worlds,thy from different worlds,thy reveled in t
11、heir reveled in their differences.For years they differences.For years they lived together in love and lived together in love and harmony.harmony.Then they decided to fly to Earth.In the beginning everything was wonderful Then they decided to fly to Earth.In the beginning everything was wonderful an
12、d beautiful.But the effects of Earths atmosphere took hold,and one morning and beautiful.But the effects of Earths atmosphere took hold,and one morning everyone woke up with a kind of amnesia.Both Martians and Venusians forgot that everyone woke up with a kind of amnesia.Both Martians and Venusians
13、forgot that they were from different planets.they were from different planets.Since that day men and women have been in conflict.chapter1:different valuesA mans sense of self is A mans sense of self is defined through his defined through his ability to achieve ability to achieve results.results.A wo
14、mans sense of self A womans sense of self is defined through her is defined through her feelings and the quality feelings and the quality of her relationships.of her relationships.Chapter2 The differences how they cope with stress.#one of the biggest differences men and women is one of the biggest d
15、ifferences men and women is how they cope with stress.how they cope with stress.To feel better martians To feel better martians go to their caves to go to their caves to solve problems alone.solve problems alone.To feel better venusians To feel better venusians get together and openly get together a
16、nd openly talk about their talk about their problems.problems.How to support a man in his cave 1 dont disapprove of his need for withdrawing.1 dont disapprove of his need for withdrawing.Dont try to nurture him by asking questions Dont try to nurture him by asking questions about his feelings.about
17、his feelings.Dont try to help him solve his problem by Dont try to help him solve his problem by offering solutions.offering solutions.Dont sit next to the door of the cave and wait for Dont sit next to the door of the cave and wait for him to come out.him to come out.Dont worry about him pr feel so
18、rry for him.Dont worry about him pr feel sorry for him.Do something that makes you happy.Do something that makes you happy.Chapter 3 speaking different languagesThe martian and Venusian languages had the same words,but the way they were used gave different meanings.The following section contains Ven
19、usian/Martian Phrase Dictionary.Each of the complaints listed above is translated so that a man can understand woman real and intended meaning.Each translation also contains a hint of how she wants him to respond.The venusian/martian phrase dictionary Women say Women say things like things like A ma
20、n may hearA man may hearThe venusian/martian The venusian/martian phrase dictionaryphrase dictionarywe never go outwe never go outYou are not doing your You are not doing your job.What a disappintment job.What a disappintment you have turned to be.We you have turned to be.We neverdo anything togethe
21、r neverdo anything together anymore bevause you are anymore bevause you are lazy,unlazy,unr romanticomantic.And just boring.And just boring.I feel like going out and I feel like going out and doing something doing something together.We always together.We always have such a fun time,have such a fun t
22、ime,and i love being with and i love being with you.you.everyone ignores me I am so unhappy.I am so unhappy.Everything is completely Everything is completely hopeless.Even you dont hopeless.Even you dont notice me,and you are the notice me,and you are the person who is supposed to person who is supp
23、osed to love me.You are so love me.You are so unloving.unloving.I am feeling ignored and I am feeling ignored and unacknowledged.I am unacknowledged.I am afraid your work is more afraid your work is more important than me.important than me.Would you give me a Would you give me a hug and tell me how
24、hug and tell me how special i am to you?special i am to you?Women say things Women say things like like A A mman may hearan may hearTheThe venusian/martian venusian/martian phrase dictionaryphrase dictionaryNNothing is working.othing is working.You never do anything You never do anything right.I can
25、t trust you.right.I cant trust you.Another man would have Another man would have fixed things,but you made fixed things,but you made them worse.them worse.I get so overwhelmed by all I get so overwhelmed by all the things i still have to do.the things i still have to do.Would you give me a hug Would
26、 you give me a hug and tell me that i am doing and tell me that i am doing a great job.a great job.the house is always a the house is always a messmess This house is a mess This house is a mess because of you.You are a because of you.You are a lazy slob and i dont want lazy slob and i dont want to l
27、ive with you unless you to live with you unless you change clean up or clear change clean up or clear our!our!Today i feel like Today i feel like relaxing,but the house is so relaxing,but the house is so messy.Would you agree messy.Would you agree with me and then offer to with me and then offer to
28、help clean up part of it?help clean up part of it?YYou dont love me ou dont love me anymoreanymore I have given you the best years have given you the best years of my life,and you have gicen of my life,and you have gicen me nothing.You do not care me nothing.You do not care about anybody.I was a foo
29、l about anybody.I was a fool for lving you.Now i have for lving you.Now i have nothing.nothing.I I am feeling as though you am feeling as though you dont love me.I konw you dont love me.I konw you really do love me,I am just really do love me,I am just feeling a little insecure.Would feeling a littl
30、e insecure.Would you reassure me of your love you reassure me of your love and tell me those three magic and tell me those three magic words,I love you.words,I love you.After using this dictionary for a few years,a man doesnt need to pick it up each time he feels blamed or criticized,and a woman wil
31、l feel truly heard and loved.Chapter 4 men are like rubber bands,women are like wavesWhen a man loves a When a man loves a woman,periodically he woman,periodically he needs to pull away before needs to pull away before he can get closer.he can get closer.A womans self-esteem A womans self-esteem ris
32、es and falls like a rises and falls like a wave.When she hits wave.When she hits bottom it is a time for bottom it is a time for emotional emotional housecleaning.housecleaning.Chapter 5 scoring points with the opposite sexWhen a woman keeps score,no When a woman keeps score,no matter how big matter
33、 how big o or small a gift of r small a gift of love is,it scores one point;each gift love is,it scores one point;each gift has equal value.has equal value.A man thinks he scores high with a A man thinks he scores high with a woman when he does something woman when he does something very big for her
34、,like buying her a very big for her,like buying her a new car or taking her on a vacation.new car or taking her on a vacation.He assumes he scores less when he He assumes he scores less when he does something small,like opening does something small,like opening the car door,buying her a flower,or th
35、e car door,buying her a flower,or giving her a hug.giving her a hug.Chapter 6 Discovering out different emotional needsThe primary love needs of women and menHere are the different kinds of love listed side by Here are the different kinds of love listed side by side:side:Women need to receiveWomen n
36、eed to receiveCaringCaringUnderstandingUnderstandingRespectRespectDevotionDevotionValidationValidationReassurance Reassurance Men need to receiveMen need to receiveTrustTrustAcceptanceAcceptanceAppreciationAppreciationAdmirationAdmirationApprovalApprovalencouragementencouragementcommentsI feel like
37、that it has been quite some time that I feel like that it has been quite some time that novel and books are not part of the fun of my life.novel and books are not part of the fun of my life.Restart to read,decision from todayRestart to read,decision from today.Happen to notice this book.Happen to no
38、tice this book.Seems to be a book about marriage,but one,as Seems to be a book about marriage,but one,as either male or female,can locate him/herself from either male or female,can locate him/herself from some of the words.I cannt keep laughing when some of the words.I cannt keep laughing when some plots so have happened before in my life.some plots so have happened before in my life.In one word,its an observational book,with good In one word,its an observational book,with good life tips provided.life tips provided.三克油！