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1、Lelle WangMary:There is so much to do,I dont have any time for myself.Tom:You should quit that job.You dont have to work so hard.Find something you like to do.Mary:But I like my job,they just expect me to change everything at a moments notice.Tom:Dont listen to them.Just do what you can do.Mary:I am
2、!I cant believe I completely forgot to call my aunt today.Tom:Dont worry about it.She will understand.Mary:Do you know what she is going through?She needs me.Tom:You worry too much,thats why youre so unhappy.Mary(angrily):I am not always unhappy.Cant you just listen to me?Tom:I am listening.Mary:Why
3、 do I even bother!Knowing that we have differences calm us down when facing conflicts MartiansVenusiansMr.Fix-ItGo to their cavesMs.Home-Improvement CommitteeTalkWhen coping with stressMen and women are motivated in different waysMartiansVenusiansNeededTrustedDont offer unsolicited advice to Martian
4、sCherishedUnderstoodJust listen to VenusiansWithout a dictionary they might hurt each otherWhen Martians sayThey actually meanIm fine.(I dont care about what has happened This problem is not important to me.Even if it upsets you,I dont care.)Its nothing.(I dont know what is bothering me.Ask me about
5、 it)I am fine because I am successfully dealing with my upset or problem.I dont need any help.If I do I will ask.Nothing is bothering me that I cannot handle alone.Please dont ask any more questions about it.When Venusians sayThey actually meanYou never listen to me.(I give you my attention but you
6、dont listen to me.You are selfish and uncaring.)We never go out.(You are unromantic and boring.)Would you listen to me and continue to ask me supportive questions and care more about me.I feel like going out and doing something together.We always have such a fun time and I love being with you.Would
7、you please take me out?Mary:There is so much to do,I dont have any time for myself.Tom:(take a deep breath,relax exhale)Humph,sounds like you had a hard day.Mary:But I like my job,they just expect me to change everything at a moments notice.Tom:(pause)Hmmm.Mary:I even forgot to call my aunt today.Tom:(slight wrinkled blow)Oh no.Mary:She needs me right now.I feel so sad.Tom:You are such a loving person.Come here,let me give you a hug!Mary:(hug,sigh of relief)I love talking with you.You make me really happy.Thanks for listening.I feel much better.By Lelle Wang