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1、TED演讲：别吝啬一声感谢中英文（） 第一篇：TED演讲：别吝啬一声感谢中英文 TED演讲:别吝啬一声感谢 ： s:/ xiexiebang /talks/laura_trice_suggests_we_all_say_thank_you Hi. Im here to talk to you about the importance of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be specific and genuine. And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed in m
2、yself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their praise of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the on
3、ly one who does this? So, I decided to investigate. Im fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death with addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as simple as, their core wound is their father died without ever saying hes proud of th
4、em. But then, they hear from all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because he didnt know that his son needed to hear it. So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentleman, married for 2
5、5 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, Thank you for being the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids, but wont ask. I know a woman whos good at this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the ki
6、ds. And he goes, Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, April, who Ive had since kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, Why wouldnt I thank it, even though theyre s
7、upposed to do it? So, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were other people blocking it? Why can I say, Ill take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes, but I wont say, Would you praise me this way? And its because Im giving you critical data about me. Im telling you where Im insecure.
8、Im telling you where I need your help. And Im treating you, my inner circle, like youre the enemy. Because what can you do with that data? You could neglect me. You could abuse it. Or you could actually meet my need. And I took my bike into the bike store- I love this - same bike, and theyd do somet
9、hing called truing the wheels. The guy said, You know, when you true the wheels, its going to make the bike so much better. I get the same bike back, and theyve taken all the little warps out of those same wheels Ive had for two and a half years, and my bike is like new. So, Im going to challenge al
10、l of you. I want you to true your wheels: be honest about the praise that you need to hear. What do you need to hear? Go home to your wife - go ask her, what does she need?Go home to your husband - what does he need? Go home and ask those questions, and then help the people around you. And its simpl
11、e. And why should we care about this? We talk about world peace. How can we have world peace with different cultures, different languages? I think it starts household by household, under the same roof. So, lets make it right in our own backyard. And I want to thank all of you in the audience for bei
12、ng great husbands, great mothers, friends, daughters, sons. And maybe somebodys never said that to you, but youve done a really, really good job.And thank you for being here, just showing up and changing the world with your ideas. Thank you. (Applause) Dr. Laura Trice is a therapist and coach, devot
13、ed to practices that help people find fulfillment. Shes created a therapeutic program called Writing in Recovery that uses creative skills such as journaling and music to help people develop better self-awareness and set goals. Shes taught this program at such well-known clinics as Betty Ford and Pr
14、omises. Shes the author of the book How to Work Any 12-Step Program. In her other life, she is the head of Lauras Wholesome Junk Food, making healthy cookies and brownies. 你好我来这里是要和你谈谈赞美，赞美，感谢你的重要性，并将它具体化和真诚。 我对这方面感爱好的方式是，当我长大了，直到大约几年前，我想对某人说感谢，我想赞美他们，我想对我的赞美，我会阻挡它。我问自己，为什么？我感到羞怯，感到尴尬。然后我的问题就变成了，我是唯
15、一一个这样做的人吗？所以，我确定调查。 我特殊幸运的在一家康复中心工作，所以我可以看到人在面对生死与成瘾。有时它会归结为一点简洁的事情，他们的核心伤口是他们的父亲死了，而没有说他为他们感到高傲。但是，他们听到来自全部的家庭和挚友，父亲告知其他人，他为他感到高傲，但他从来没有告知儿子。因为他不知道他的儿子需要听它。 所以我的问题是，为什么我们不要求我们需要的东西？我知道先生，结婚25年了，他渴望听到他妻子说，“感谢你为养家糊口的人，所以我可以和孩子们呆在家里，“但不会问。我相识一个很好的女人。她，每周一次，遇到她的丈夫说：“我真的很宠爱你，感谢我做的全部这些事情我做的房子和孩子，和他去，“哦，这
16、是宏大的，这是宏大的和赞美真的必需是真正的，但她担当责任。我的一个挚友，四月，我从幼儿园起先，她感谢她的孩子做家务。她说，“为什么我不感谢它，即使他们应当这样做？ 所以，问题是，为什么我会阻碍它？为什么其他人会堵塞它？我为什么要说，“我要吃我的牛排，我需要六双鞋，但我不说，“你这样夸奖我吗？这是因为我给了你关于我的重要数据。我告知你我是担忧全的。我告知你我需要你的关心。我在对待你，我的内心，就像你的敌人。因为你能用这些数据做什么？你可以忽视我。你可以滥用它。或者你可以真正满意我的需要。 我把我的自行车在自行车店我爱这同样的自行车，他们会做一些所谓的“修整车轮。他说，“你知道，当你真正的车轮，它
17、会使自行车更好。“我得到相同的自行车后，他们已经把全部的小扭曲了我已经有两年半的时间，同样，我的自行车轮子，像新的一样。所以，我要挑战你们全部人。我要你真正的你的轮子：是恳切的赞美，你需要听到。你需要听什么？回到你的妻子去问她，她需要什么？回到你丈夫身边-他需要什么？回家问这些问题，然后关心四周的人。 这很简洁。我们为什么要关切这个？我们谈论世界和平。我们如何才能有不同的文化，不同的语言，世界和平？我想是一个家庭的家庭，在同一屋檐下。所以，让我们把它放在我们自己的后院。我要感谢你们全部的人都是宏大的丈夫，宏大的母亲，挚友，女儿，儿子。或许有人从来没有对你说过这样的话，但你真的做了一个特殊好的工
18、作，感谢你在这里，只是用你的想法展示和变更世界。 感谢你。掌声 劳拉博士就是一个治疗师和教练，致力于实践，关心人们找到成就感。她创建了一个治疗程序中调用复原运用的创作技巧，如日志和音乐关心人们更好地进展自我意识和设定目标的写作。她在贝蒂福特和承诺的著名诊所教这个节目。她是本书的作者，该书的作者是如何工作的12步。在她的生活，她是劳拉的有益健康的垃圾食品的头，使健康的饼干和蛋糕。 其次篇：TED英语演讲稿：请别遗忘感谢身边的人 Hi. Im here to talk to you about the importance of praise, admiration and thank you,
19、and having it be specific and genuine. 嗨。我在这里要和大家谈谈 向别人表达赞美，倾佩和谢意的重要性。 并使它们听来真诚，具体。 And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take
20、in their praise of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the only one who does this? So, I decided to investigate. 之所以我对此感爱好 是因为我从我自己的成长中留意到 几年前， 当我想要对某个人说声感谢时， 当我想要赞美他们时， 当我想接受他们对我的赞扬， 但我却没有说出口。 我问我自己，这是为什么? 我感到羞怯，我感到尴尬。 接
21、着我产生了一个问题 莫非我是唯一一个这么做的人吗? 所以我确定做些探究。 Im fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death with addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as simple as, their core wound is their father died without ever saying hes proud of them. But then, t
22、hey hear from all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because he didnt know that his son needed to hear it. 我特殊幸运的在一家康复中心工作， 所以我可以看到那些因为上瘾而面临生与死的人。 有时候这一切可以特殊简洁地归结为， 他们最核心的创伤来自于他们父亲到死都未说过“他为他们而傲慢。 但他们从全部其它家庭或挚友那里得知 他的父亲告
23、知其他人为他感到傲慢， 但这个父亲从没告知过他儿子。 因为他不知道他的儿子需要听到这一切。 So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentleman, married for 25 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, Thank you for being the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids, but wont ask. I know a woman whos good at
24、this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids. And he goes, Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, Ap
25、ril, who Ive had since kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, Why wouldnt I thank it, even though theyre supposed to do it? 因此我的问题是，为什么我们不索求我们需要的东西呢? 我相识一个结婚25年的男士 渴望听到他妻子说， “感谢你为这个家在外赚钱，这样我才能在家陪伴着孩子， 但他从来不去问。 我相识一个精于此道的女士。 每周一次，她见到丈夫后会说， “我真的盼望你为我对这个家和孩子们付出的努力而感
26、谢我。 他会应和到“哦，真是太棒了，真是太棒了。 赞扬别人确定要真诚， 但她对赞美担当了责任。 一个从我上幼儿园就始终是挚友的叫April的人， 她会感谢她的孩子们做了家务。 她说：“为什么我不表示感谢呢，即使他们原来就要做那些事情? So, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were other people blocking it? Why can I say, Ill take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes, but I wont say, Would you praise m
27、e this way? And its because Im giving you critical data about me. Im telling you where Im insecure. Im telling you where I need your help. And Im treating you, my inner circle, like youre the enemy. Because what can you do with that data? You could neglect me. You could abuse it. Or you could actual
28、ly meet my need. 因此我的问题是，为什么我不说呢? 为什么其它人不说呢? 为什么我能说：“我要一块中等厚度的牛排， 我需要6号尺寸的鞋子， 但我却不能说：“你可以赞扬我吗? 因为这会使我把我的重要信息与你共享。 会让我告知了你我内心的担忧。 会让你认为我需要你的关心。 虽然你是我最贴心的人， 我却把你当作是敌人。 你会用我托付给你的重要信息做些什么呢? 你可以忽视我。 你可以滥用它。 或者你可以满意我的要求。 And I took my bike into the bike store- I love this - same bike, and theyd do somethi
29、ng called truing the wheels. The guy said, You know, when you true the wheels, its going to make the bike so much better. I get the same bike back, and theyve taken all the little warps out of those same wheels Ive had for two and a half years, and my bike is like new. So, Im going to challenge all
30、of you. I want you to true your wheels: be honest about the praise that you need to hear. What do you need to hear? Go home to your wife - go ask her, what does she need? Go home to your husband - what does he need? Go home and ask those questions, and then help the people around you. 我把我的自行车拿到车行-我宠
31、爱这么做- 同样的自行车，他们会对车轮做整形。 那里的人说：“当你对车轮做整形时， 它会使自行车变成更好。 我把这辆自行车拿回来， 他们把有小小弯曲的铁丝从轮子上拿走 这辆车我用了2年半，如今还像新的一样。 所以我要问在场的全部人， 我盼望你们把你们的车轮整形一下： 真诚面对对你们想听到的赞美。 你们想听到什么呢? 回家问问你们的妻子，她想听到什么? 回家问问你们的丈夫，他想听到什么? 回家问问这些问题，并关心身边的人实现它们。 And its simple. And why should we care about this? We talk about world peace. How c
32、an we have world peace with different cultures, different languages? I think it starts household by household, under the same roof. So, lets make it right in our own backyard. And I want to thank all of you in the audience for being great husbands, great mothers, friends, daughters, sons. And maybe
33、somebodys never said that to you, but youve done a really, really good job. And thank you for being here, just showing up and changing the world with your ideas. 特殊简洁。 为什么要关切这个呢? 我们谈论世界和平。 我们怎么用不同的文化，不同的语言来保持世界和平? 我想要从每个小家庭起先。 所以让我们在家里就把这件事情做好。 我想要感谢全部在这里的人们 因为你们是好丈夫，好母亲， 好伙伴，好女儿和好儿子。 或许有些人从没跟你们说过 但
34、你们已经做得特殊特殊得精彩了。 感谢你们来到这里， 向世界显示着你们的才智，并用它们变更着世界。 第三篇：别吝啬开口美文 假如你即将死去，并且糟到只能打一个电话，你会打给谁？说些什么？你到底在等什么？ 史丹芬李维 有天晚上，我重拾一本我曾读过的书，内容是有关为人父母的种种，这种书我已看过几百本，而我觉得有种罪反感，因为那本书描述了一些为人父母该运用，而我却从未运用的策略。主要的策略是和你的小孩交谈，运用三个奇异字：我爱你。这句话已被强调过多数次，那就是：孩子必需知道无论在任何状况下，你是的确实确、真正地爱着他们。 我上楼走到儿子的房门前敲了门。敲门时只听到他的鼓声。我知道他在房里，但他却没有应
35、门。所以我打开门，不出所料，他正坐在那里，戴着耳机，边听录音带边敲他的鼓，我靠过去引起他的留意，开口说：提姆，你有空吗？ 他说：哦，当然有，爹地，我始终很闲。我们煞有介事地坐下，但在15分钟内只有一些琐碎、支支吾吾的交谈。我只好看着他说：提姆，我真地很宠爱你打鼓的样子。 他说：哦，感谢你，爹地，我很感谢。 我走出他的房门说：等会儿见！当我下楼时，突然记起上楼是为了某些想法，而我并没有传达。我觉得有必要回到楼上，找机会说出那三个奇异的字。 我又爬上楼，敲了门然后打开。提姆，你有空吗？ 当然罗，爹地。我当然有空。有事吗？ 儿子，我刚刚上来是为了和你共享一些事，但不知怎么的，说了一些不是我想说的。提
36、姆，你记得以前你学开车时，给我带来很多麻烦吗？我写了三个字塞在你的枕头里盼望你会留意。身为父母，我已表达了我对你的爱。最终又聊了一会，我看着提姆说：我要你知道我们都很爱你。 他看着我说：哦，感谢你，爹地。你是说你和妈妈吗？ 我说：是啊，是我们两个，我们都表达得不够。 他说：感谢，那对我来说意义重大，我知道你们很爱我。 我转身走出房门。下楼时，我起先想：我真不敢信任！我已经上楼二次了我明知自己要传达的是什么，但为何老是顾左右而言他？ 我确定马上回到楼上，让提姆知道我真实的感受。这次他会干脆从我口中听到那三个字。我不在乎他如今已6尺高了！所以我走回去，敲了门，听到他在里面喊：等一下，别告知我是谁。
37、该不会又是你吧，爹地？ 我说：你怎么知道是我？他回答道：爹地，我相识你已不是一两天了。 然后我说：儿子，能不能再给我一点时间？ 你知道我随时奉陪，进来吧！我猜你刚刚并没有把你想说的话说出来吧？ 我说：你怎么知道？ 打从我包尿布时期我就相识你了。 我说：唔，提姆，这也就是我始终想说而没说出口的。我只是想让你知道，对我们家而言，你有多特别！我们爱你并不是因为你曾经做过什么宏大的事，而只是因为你是我们的儿子。我爱你，而且我只想让你知道我爱你。我实在不懂为何这么重要的话我始终藏在心里。 他看着我说：嘿，爹地，我都了解，听到你这么说感觉真的很特别，感谢你的想法和努力尝试。当我即将跨出房门，他说：哦，爹地
38、，耽误你一分钟。 我心里起先想：糟了！他要对我说什么？嘴上却说：哦，当然没问题。 我不知道孩子们从哪里学来这个，但我确定绝非来自父母，他却说道：爹地，我只想问你一个问题。 我说：什么问题？ 他看了我一下说：爹，你是不是去参加了研习会还是什么的？ 我脑中闪过：惨了，就像其他18岁的小伙子，他已洞悉我的心理。我回答不，我只是看了一本书，书上说告知孩子你的真正感受是很重要的。 嘿，感谢你花了这么多时间，待会儿再谈，爹地。 我认为提姆给了我一些启示：要明白爱的真正意义及目的，唯一方法就是情愿付出代价。我必需勇敢地跨出第一步。 第四篇：TED名人演讲稿：请别遗忘感谢身边的人_0 TED名人演讲稿：请别遗
39、忘感谢身边的人 点课台前言：雅思听力对于很多烤鸭来说都是一道难关，大家都在苦苦思索，怎样的雅思听力。今日，点课台老师给大家整理了TED演讲，附演讲稿与视频，盼望可以关心到正在备考的考生。TED是美国的一家私有非盈利机构，该机构以它组织的TED大会著称，这个会议的宗旨是“用思想的力气来变更世界。大家在熬炼雅思听力的时候，也可以学习一下里面的主角们的思维模式，论述方法，盼望还能对大家的雅思写作有所启迪。 Hi. Im here to talk to you about the importance of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it
40、 be specific and genuine. 嗨。我在这里要和大家谈谈 向别人表达赞美，倾佩和谢意的重要性。 并使它们听来真诚，具体。 And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their prai
41、se of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the only one who does this? So, I decided to investigate. 之所以我对此感爱好 是因为我从我自己的成长中留意到 几年前， 当我想要对某个人说声感谢时， 当我想要赞美他们时， 当我想接受他们对我的赞扬， 但我却没有说出口。 我问我自己，这是为什么？ 我感到羞怯，我感到尴尬。 接着我产生了一个问题 莫非我
42、是唯一一个这么做的人吗？ 所以我确定做些探究。 Im fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death with addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as simple as, their core wound is their father died without ever saying hes proud of them. But then, they hear from
43、 all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because he didnt know that his son needed to hear it. 我特殊幸运的在一家康复中心工作， 所以我可以看到那些因为上瘾而面临生与死的人。 有时候这一切可以特殊简洁地归结为， 他们最核心的创伤来自于他们父亲到死都未说过“他为他们而傲慢。 但他们从全部其它家庭或挚友那里得知 他的父亲告知其他人为他感到傲慢， 但
44、这个父亲从没告知过他儿子。 因为他不知道他的儿子需要听到这一切。 So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentleman, married for 25 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, “Thank you for being the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids, but wont ask. I know a woman whos good at this. She, o
45、nce a week, meets with her husband and says, “Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids. And he goes, “Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, April, who I
46、ve had since kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, “Why wouldnt I thank it, even though theyre supposed to do it? 因此我的问题是，为什么我们不索求我们需要的东西呢？ 我相识一个结婚25年的男士 渴望听到他妻子说， “感谢你为这个家在外赚钱，这样我才能在家陪伴着孩子， 但他从来不去问。 我相识一个精于此道的女士。 每周一次，她见到丈夫后会说， “我真的盼望你为我对这个家和孩子们付出的努力而感谢我。 他会应和到
47、“哦，真是太棒了，真是太棒了。 赞扬别人确定要真诚， 但她对赞美担当了责任。 一个从我上幼儿园就始终是挚友的叫April的人， 她会感谢她的孩子们做了家务。 她说：“为什么我不表示感谢呢，即使他们原来就要做那些事情？ So, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were other people blocking it? Why can I say, “Ill take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes, but I wont say, “Would you praise me this way? And its because Im giving you critical data about me. Im telling you where Im insecure. Im telling you where I need your help. And Im treating you, my inner circle, like youre the enemy. Be