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1、l The importance of self-esteeml What self-esteem is and is notl The paradox of self-esteeml Toward a new understanding Dependent self-esteem Independent self-esteem Unconditional self-esteeml Enhancing self-esteem“Self-esteem is the disposition to experience oneself as competent to cope with the ba
2、sic challenges of life and as worthy of happiness.”Nathaniel Branden Of all the judgments we pass in our lives, none is as important as the one we pass on ourselves.Nathaniel Branden The greatest evil that can befall man is that he should come to think ill of himself.GoetheThe Importance of Self-Est
3、eemHigh Self-EsteemlMental HealthlQuality of relationshipslSuccesslSocial effectivenesslHappinessLow Self-EsteemlAnxietylDepressionlPsychosomatic symptomslUnderachievementlNathaniel Branden The immune system of consciousnesslBednar and Peterson Underlying cause of most emotional and behavioral probl
4、emslCalifornia Task Force Social vaccinel Egotism (arrogance and conceit)“The person who feels weak becomes a bully, the inferior person a braggart; a flexing of muscles, much talk, cockiness, an endeavor to brazen it out, are symptoms of covert anxiety in a person or a group.” Rollo Mayl Egotism (a
5、rrogance and conceit)l Unrealistic evaluation (harms performance)lWhat self-esteem is not A product of empty reinforcement Pseudo self-esteemlWhat self-esteem is Founded in reality Product of hard workl Anti-social behavior Aggressive, uncooperativel Paradox of self-esteeml Dependent self-esteeml In
6、dependent self-esteeml Unconditional self-esteeml Worthiness Other-determinedl Competence Other-comparisonl Worthiness Self-determinedl Competence Self-ComparisonlWorthiness Not contingentl Competence Interdependentl Moral Behavior True to principles Empathyl Better cognitive performance Creative th
7、inking Commitment to continuous learning lIncreased Happiness Calmness The joy of self-expressionlSelf-Esteem Stability Kernis (1995) Ben-Shahar (2000)lHappiness and Flow Christino (2002)lNarcissism, Generosity, Hostility Ben-Shahar (2004)lPerfectionism Ignaczyk and Richey (2003)“Differentiation is
8、your ability to maintain your sense of self when you are emotionally and/or physically close to othersespecially as they become increasingly important to you. Differentiation permits you to maintain your own course when lovers, friends, and family pressure you to agree and conform. Well-differentiat
9、ed people can agree without feeling like theyre losing themselves, and can disagree without feeling alienated and embittered.”David Schnarch (1997) “It is easy in the world to live after the worlds opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the
10、 crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.”Ralph Waldo EmersonAttitudeBehaviorl Induce calmlSlave to passionsl Finding flowl Copingl Humble behaviorl Taking timeStage Modell Stage 1 Automatic reaction Conformity Dependent selfl Stage 2 Deliberate reflAction Self reliance Indep
11、endent core selfl Induce calmlSlave to passionsl Finding flowl Copingl Humble behaviorl Taking timel IntegrityIntegrity TreatmentlBeing known versus validated (Schnarch, 1997) Express not impress Assert yourselflGradually expanding integrity From journaling to loved-one to world From day to week to
12、life-longlTruth sets us free Your true potential lies way, way down in the depths of your soul in the pit of your stomach, past your knowledge, beyond your nervousness, and buried under your fears and anxieties. As hidden as it may be, it is still there. I know its there because Ive felt it before,
13、and I know its there in others too because Ive seen others perform miracles. There is a faint glow of unparalleled potential in all of us, and when we find it it shines.Melissa Christino Bandura, A. (1997). Self-efficacy: The exercise of control. W.H. Freeman and Company: New York. Bednar, R. L. and
14、 Peterson, S. R. (1995) Self Esteem: Paradoxes and Innovations in Clinical Theory and Practice. (2nd edition). American Psychological Asssociation. Coopersmith, S. (1967). The antecedents of self-esteem. New York: W.H. Freeman. Crocker, J., Luhtanen, R. K., Bouvrette, S. (2003). “Contingencies of se
15、lf-worth in college students: theory and measurement.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. 85, 894-908. Kernis, M. H. (Ed.). (1995). Efficacy, agency, and self-esteem. New York: Plenum. Locke, E. A., McClear, K., Knight, D. (1996). “Self esteem and work.” In C. Cooper & I. Robertson (Eds), International Review of Industrial & Organizational Psychology. Chichester, England: Wiley Ltd. Swann, W. B., Jr. (1997). The trouble with change: Self-verification and allegiance to the self. Psychological Science, 8, (3), 177-180.Bibliography and Recommendations